I started out as an Explorer because I was going in fairly blind and wasn't metagaming towards a particular build, and it started with equally low Strength/Dex/Int/Faith and high-ish Adapt, the one stat I knew I'd eventually need to raise.
I ended up finding Dex weapons I liked first, switching between a lot of the basics (rapiers and falchions, etc) but settling on spears, at first the normal spear, then switching between Spear and Winged Spear (weapon durability seems like a much bigger issue, and they serve different functions: Spear has a strike damage AoE swing with a huge hitbox as its strong attack while Winged is all very long range thrusting pokes), now switching between Winged Spear and Partizan (Partizan has a similar moveset to regular Spear but S rank Dex scaling). There are lots of enemies in this game that are weak to strike (blunt) damage, and so honestly the Spear/Partizan's strong blunt swing feels kind of OP very often both for its damage type and its ability to wreck a whole group of dudes running at you.
Also, in 5-6 combined playthroughs of Demon's and Dark I'd always used some form of magic but never bows, so I decided this time since I was levelling Dex anyway I'd also use bows for the first time and ignore magic. It's been really fun and created a very different experience. Bows work well as king of an afterthought supplementary weapon, because you can just throw excess Souls before a run into topping off your arrow supply, while you have to save up a lot to buy spells. Just found Hunter's Blackblow, had gone through what I'd guess is a typical Shortbow-->Longbow progression before that.
Fashion is uhhh... mixed. I'd never taken off the Explorer beret with its funny eyepiece because it's funny and who doesn't want higher drop rates, and Leather Gloves and Boots to keep equip load low, and Drangleic Mail because it has a cape that goes with the beret and eyepiece look and also and has decent enough defense for its weight, I think (haven't done the math, just seems that way, could be a trap for all I know...). Using whatever the best shield is my lower strength will allow, honestly forget what it is at the moment.